To whom it may concern .
This is my input about the Josh Duggar scandal. I like others have watched the show but deep down I knew that there was something hidden under all the religious facade. But I could not figure it out . Until the side hug . That's right the side hug. I thought in a tight family , hugs are a sign of love and trust. But a side hug ? Hmmm . That creates distance and mistrust . I cant help but think that the Duggar parents created the side hug to keep the sex parts away from each other . Right ? In most families a hug is a hug but coming from abusive childhood myself . I seen the patterns . So there had to be a reason behind it and now we know Josh is a child molester .That explains a lot . I have read the things that others have had to say about all of this and some say he was a child. He was 14 like that excuses his behavior , and he should be forgiven.What ?! Sounds like excuses to me . Excuses, excuses, excuses, their is no excuse for harming a child . That's all most like saying I'm sorry after you have just hit me in the face and then you hit me again .Saying I'm sorry does not mean you feel bad for me because my face is now bruised and blackened , it is just an admission of guilt in my book. I have been abused mentally and physically and I'm sorry does not mean anything other then you know hit me in the face .Well , I know you hit me , My face hurts . I am 44 and when my mother took me from Joe (my daddy) I was molested by aunts and uncles( her brothers and sisters) who were ALSO children who ranged from the age of 8 to 18 and that does not make it okay . And to this day they have never said im sorry . So I guess they meant it . If a person never admits that they have molested another person then in their mind they have not done wrong .And I still carry that with me and at times and it will not go away . ( LIKE NOW! ) Being held down by force and being tied to a wall by family members so they can have their way with you . Being forced to do things that no little girl should EVER have to experience in a life time , while they do what ever to you while you cry and scream for your mother who never comes , but because you are so small and your parents are gone It didn't matter to them . Because they can't get caught doing vile and evil things . It does not make it okay . They should be punished, as should he .What kind of kids were they ? who does that to a child . I am glad i can not remember all of what was done to me . It took a lot of therapy to get this far. It does not matter what kind of person he is now . He is a sex offender and should treated like one . At 14 one knows right from wrong and he was wrong ! And so was his family to cover it up. As was mine ! You can not push it vile behavior under the carpet and forget about it .Eventually there will be a large lump in the floor . Crimes like this do not go away . Families that try to act perfect are far from it . He will burn for what he has done and so will those who helped him hide it . And as far as my family . I have no family from my mothers side . When my mother died and than Grandfather died that was the only family I had and as for the rest of the aunts and uncles with the exception of 2 aunts they have always treated me like I wasn't family . My heart is not broken for them . I make my own family and as I reach out to family I have not known. I will protect you with my life if needed .I will be there for you . I try to be a kind and understanding . I am an honest and peaceful person living out my life . I try not to hate those who have hurt me, just for the fact that hate gets you nowhere , but I hold no sympathy for child molesters , even if they themselves are children. Much light and love to you who have been hurt.
This is my input about the Josh Duggar scandal. I like others have watched the show but deep down I knew that there was something hidden under all the religious facade. But I could not figure it out . Until the side hug . That's right the side hug. I thought in a tight family , hugs are a sign of love and trust. But a side hug ? Hmmm . That creates distance and mistrust . I cant help but think that the Duggar parents created the side hug to keep the sex parts away from each other . Right ? In most families a hug is a hug but coming from abusive childhood myself . I seen the patterns . So there had to be a reason behind it and now we know Josh is a child molester .That explains a lot . I have read the things that others have had to say about all of this and some say he was a child. He was 14 like that excuses his behavior , and he should be forgiven.What ?! Sounds like excuses to me . Excuses, excuses, excuses, their is no excuse for harming a child . That's all most like saying I'm sorry after you have just hit me in the face and then you hit me again .Saying I'm sorry does not mean you feel bad for me because my face is now bruised and blackened , it is just an admission of guilt in my book. I have been abused mentally and physically and I'm sorry does not mean anything other then you know hit me in the face .Well , I know you hit me , My face hurts . I am 44 and when my mother took me from Joe (my daddy) I was molested by aunts and uncles( her brothers and sisters) who were ALSO children who ranged from the age of 8 to 18 and that does not make it okay . And to this day they have never said im sorry . So I guess they meant it . If a person never admits that they have molested another person then in their mind they have not done wrong .And I still carry that with me and at times and it will not go away . ( LIKE NOW! ) Being held down by force and being tied to a wall by family members so they can have their way with you . Being forced to do things that no little girl should EVER have to experience in a life time , while they do what ever to you while you cry and scream for your mother who never comes , but because you are so small and your parents are gone It didn't matter to them . Because they can't get caught doing vile and evil things . It does not make it okay . They should be punished, as should he .What kind of kids were they ? who does that to a child . I am glad i can not remember all of what was done to me . It took a lot of therapy to get this far. It does not matter what kind of person he is now . He is a sex offender and should treated like one . At 14 one knows right from wrong and he was wrong ! And so was his family to cover it up. As was mine ! You can not push it vile behavior under the carpet and forget about it .Eventually there will be a large lump in the floor . Crimes like this do not go away . Families that try to act perfect are far from it . He will burn for what he has done and so will those who helped him hide it . And as far as my family . I have no family from my mothers side . When my mother died and than Grandfather died that was the only family I had and as for the rest of the aunts and uncles with the exception of 2 aunts they have always treated me like I wasn't family . My heart is not broken for them . I make my own family and as I reach out to family I have not known. I will protect you with my life if needed .I will be there for you . I try to be a kind and understanding . I am an honest and peaceful person living out my life . I try not to hate those who have hurt me, just for the fact that hate gets you nowhere , but I hold no sympathy for child molesters , even if they themselves are children. Much light and love to you who have been hurt.
